Losing a loved one is an emotional and spiritual experience. In many cultures, people perform rituals not only to honor the d3ad but also to protect the living. While each tradition has its own customs, there is one thing that many spiritual advisors, healers, and elders quietly agree on—you must burn the deceased’s pillow after their passing.
Why the Pillow?
The pillow is not just a place of rest. It takes in energy—our thoughts, dreams, and even unspoken emotions. It’s where a person lays their head every night, where they cry, worry, and dream. When someone passes away, their energy doesn’t appear instantly. Some think it lingers, especially in personal items like pillows that are full of emotional and spiritual residue.
Spiritual practitioners concern that keeping or reusing the deceased’s pillow can trap lingering energy in your home. In some cases, people have experienced vivid dreams, emotional heaviness, or even a constant sense of “presence” in the room. While these may be harmless, they can also prevent closure and healing.
Not Just a Superstition
In both Eastern and Western traditions, burning or discarding certain personal items of the d3ad is a way to symbolically announce their spirit. The pillow is especially sensitive because of its intimate connection to the mind and soul. Some cultures suggest burning it within 49 days of the person’s d3ath, during the spiritual “transition period,” when the soul is considered to be finding its path forward.
Even if you’re not deeply spiritual, letting go of such items can help on a psychological level. It’s a clear act of release. You’re telling yourself and the universe, “They’ve moved on, and so must I.”
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